第一：提高个人的社会竞争力，让自己能更好的适应社会。
Second: Self-understanding to stay aligned with one''s innermost desires when facing significant choices.
第二：更全面地了解自己，让自己少走弯路，在人生的重大选择面前不会偏离自己内心深处的渴望。
A person''s life may be briefly confused, but they must remain grounded and clear-headed overall. 一个普通人的人生可以短暂的迷茫，但是整体上一定要人间清醒。
This encounter in an unfamiliar place is merely a passing scenery in Gu Xiang''s life. It does not define the entirety of who she is.
这段异乡缘不过是她人生旅途中的一道风景，他不是她的全部。
He was the one who introduced her to a vague concept of love, prompting her to contemplate its true nature and the meaning of marriage. It helped her discern her preferences and better understand herself and her inner aspirations.
他是那个打开她对爱情有个朦胧的概念的人，让她开始思考什么是爱情？什么是婚姻？知道自己喜欢什么，更清楚自己到底是一个什么样的人，内心深处在追求什么？
Gu Xiang, with a natural sense of self-assuredness, is unafraid to take risks and confront her innermost self.
哦，顾湘，天生傲骨，敢闯敢拼敢担当，更敢于正视自己的内心。
Therefore, she still can''t open her heart even with his tender sweetness, moving promises, and money.
所以哪怕你温柔似水、誓言感天动地，用金钱和温柔也砸不开她的心扉。